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Mindfulness of Breathing

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Coming back to the breath, over and over

ripples on water In the mindfulness of breathing we give the breath our full attention. We use the physical sensations of the breath as an object that we focus on. We just allow the breath to happen. This is not a breathing exercise. We simply observe, and see what happens.

What we do in the Mindfulness of Breathing

So, we start off by following the breath. After a while what tends to happen is that we forget all about the breath, forget all about meditation, and get distracted by some train of thought, which is often nothing at all to do with meditation. We don’t usually make any conscious decision to think about something outside of the meditation practice. It just happens as habitual patterns of behavior come into play. In fact, not only do we not choose to get distracted, we don’t have much choice at all!

Becoming Unaware

Our habits are controlling us. It’s more like our thoughts are thinking us than we are thinking them. So one of the first things we learn in meditation is just how little control we do have — it’s quite a disconcerting realization for many of us. However, the fact that we often aren’t in control isn’t cause to become despondent — it’s the same for most of us most of the time. And we have to become aware of how distracted we are before we can do anything about it.

Question: So what do we do when we’re meant to be meditating, but aren’t?

Often we’re getting irritated, or fantasizing about things we’d rather be doing, or undermining ourselves, or dozing, or worrying about something. Most of these activities aren’t very helpful or fulfilling. They’re not things we decided to do, they’re simply the habitual things we do when we’re not aware. The things we do when we’re meant to be meditating but aren’t, are called the hindrances to meditation, and we’ll be exploring them in more detail in later classes. As well as learning about them we’ll learn a whole bunch of tools to help us deal with them.

the cycle of awareness

The difference between being mindful and not being mindful is a big one, although we’re often not very good at recognizing the difference between the two states. After all, we slip in and out of awareness all day. But there really is a big difference between being mindful and not being mindful, as we’ll learn to see.

Regaining Awareness

So we get distracted, but at some point we become aware that we haven’t been aware. In other words we regain our awareness. This is a crucial point in the meditation process. Now we’re aware again. Now we’re no longer being driven by our habits. We have freedom again. We can decide that we don’t want to re-enter the world of distractedness. We have choice. We can choose to exercise being aware rather than be dominated by our habitual distracted states of mind. We have an opportunity to cultivate awareness by maintaining our mindfulness of the breath. When we realize we’ve been distracted we can take our awareness back to the breath.

Comments

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Comment from Glenn Spencer
Time: June 28, 2010, 2:28 am

The page “coming back to the breath, over and over” Seems to have a dead image link after the paragraph “Regaining Awareness”

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Comment from Bodhipaksa
Time: June 28, 2010, 7:10 am

Thanks for pointing that out, Glenn! It’s fixed now.

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Comment from Andrej
Time: May 2, 2012, 6:50 am

Hi there,

before asking, let me tell you höw much I appreciate your wonderful site, which is both the most thorough and down-to-earth on this topic I know of.
My question: On a site about vipassana meditation I came across a recommendation – or, rather, a rule – that in order to gain any results, the “absolute minimum” of time spent sitting each day should be 2 hours . Now I feel rather uneasy about such claims and don’t find them very helpful because to determine if your meditation is “good”/worthwhile or not so good should be based rather on its quality than the time spent on the floor. – What do you make of statements like these? Is there a minimum of time for daily practice that you would recommend?

All the best,
Andrej

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Comment from Bodhipaksa
Time: May 2, 2012, 8:36 am

Thanks for the appreciative comment.

Reasearcher Sara Lazar has seen long-term changes in the brain in people who meditate for approximately 45 minutes a day. Bethany Kok found that people doing lovingkindness for an average of 10 minutes a day were move loving. Basically, any amount of meditation you do is going to have an effect. Doing two hours will have a different (probably better) effect than doing two minutes, but doing no meditation because two hours is an unattainable goal isn’t going to have any effect :)

I think most people can manage at least 20 to 40 minutes a day.

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Comment from Andrej
Time: May 16, 2012, 9:24 am

Hi B.,

thanks very much for your helpful answer. (45 to 60 minutes a day, devided into two sessions, seems like a sensible and not too unrealistic goal for me.)

Now, another question: I’ve recently come to concentrate not only on my breathing, but also on my heartbeat, mostly in the spaces or pauses between the in- and out-breath. Since I’ve always felt my heartbeat fairly strongly and it is always “there”, it seems like a good anchor for concentration, too.
Do you happen to know of any tradition that uses heartbeat as a focus?

Many thanks in advance,
Andrej

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Comment from Bodhipaksa
Time: May 16, 2012, 9:26 am

I don’t. Obviously, people notice their heartbeat while meditating, but I don’t know of any traditions that use it as a focus.

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