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Using anchors in stage three

buddha headsIf the first two stages have gone really well, letting go of the numbers can allow us to develop a deeper and more balanced concentration. However, if we haven’t managed to develop enough calmness in the first two stages, then it’s easy to get lost in the third stage.

This often happens because the counting has been acting as an anchor for our awareness: it stops us from drifting too far away from the breath. So if we let go of the counting we can often float off into distraction.

One way to retain an anchor while letting go of the numbers is to use a physical sensation in the body as an anchor. I sometimes use the physical sensations in my hands in the same way as I use the numbers.

Sometimes at the end of every out-breath I take my awareness to my hands in order to keep me grounded. I use the sensations in my hands much as I’d use the numbers.

The physical anchor is a more refined anchor than the counting because it’s non-verbal — it cuts down on the amount of thinking, so that your mind can develop a deeper level of stillness.

Other times I maintain awareness of my hands throughout the cycle of each in-breath and out-breath. When I breathe in there’s a sensation of rising in the body and so I have a general sense of the gap between the hands and the breath widening. In each out-breath there’s a feeling that the body is sinking, and so I get a sense of the connection between the hands and the breath narrowing. So I notice the connection between the hands and the breath, and this helps keep the mind from wandering off.

Partly I think this works because it makes the practice more interesting. But partly I think it’s something to do with introducing a “stretch” into the practice. What I mean is that I’ve noticed that when my mind stretches to accommodate two separate sensations it seems to calm down very quickly. I can’t explain this, but I offer it as a tool that might be useful.

Other “stretches” involve being aware of the space outside my body while focusing on some inner sensation (like the breath), and being aware of sounds outside of myself while following some inner sensation.

You might want to play around with this idea of creating a stretch in your awareness and see what happens. Just notice two very different and geographically separate sensations, and pay attention to both simultaneously. And notice what the result is.

Comments

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Comment from david humphrey
Time: February 10, 2009, 8:16 am

what about focusing on the sensation of air moving through the nostrils while your on the in breath? Would that be a good anchor?

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Comment from Bodhipaksa
Time: February 10, 2009, 9:11 am

I find that works, but only if I keep my attention on the nostrils and some other very specific part of the breath, such as the movement in a very particular part of the abdomen. Otherwise what I get is the sense that my awareness is on one rather generalized experience of the breath rather than “stretched” between two different sensations. The “stretch” seems to create the conditions for a sense of spaciousness to arise, and in that spaciousness exists stillness.

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Comment from JeffS
Time: March 5, 2009, 3:44 pm

If i find it hard to settle in this stage, I often make a humming noise whilst exhaling, just for 1 or 2 exhales; this brings my focus back to the breathing. But also acts as a ‘stretch’ because I’m concentrating on the sensation of breathe as one thing, and the sound as another.

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Comment from Bodhipaksa
Time: March 5, 2009, 4:09 pm

Sounds are a good way of creating a “stretch” and thus bringing in a sense of spaciousness. You can also just listen to ambient sound while keeping the breath at the center of your awareness, or even be aware of the space in which the sounds exist, so that you have a sense of your consciousness being really expansive and open. All these things help bring stillness quite quickly.

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Comment from Mark
Time: August 30, 2009, 7:27 pm

I also find that using what you call a ‘stretch’ causes the mind to become calm quite quickly. My practice involved feeling the breath in my lungs, trying to ‘feel’ my entire body, without the thought of sight, and also to listen for the sound of silence in the room. I know this doesn’t sound logical but there is a presence of silence that you can tune into doing all three seems to force the mind to surrender. Now my question is what happens after you mind becomes quiet? I seem to lose focus shortly after this point…

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Comment from Bodhipaksa
Time: August 30, 2009, 8:11 pm

Hi Mark,

Essentially there are three factors to be worked with — calmness, contentment, and concentration. If you’re losing your focus it would seem you’re doing fine with the calmness but not so well with the concentration (you didn’t say anything that indicates what’s going on with contentment). explaining how to work with developing greater concentration could amount to a complete course in meditation, but a few quick pointers could include:

  • Making more effort — making a willed effort to stay with the breath
  • Taking more of an interest. You can look for parictularly subtle sensations associated with the breath, for example, or just try saying to yourself “that’s interesting” and see what you notice.
  • If you use counting, see if you can follow at least three cycles of ten breaths
  • Ask yourself, “I wonder what my next thought will be” and see what happens
  • Become aware of the impermanent nature of your experiences, noticing the most prominent of your sensations and noticing it arising, existing, and passing away

I hope this is of some help.

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