Lodro Rinzler, Bustle: We’ve all been there. That blind set up/Tinder match/person you flirted with briefly at the party shows up for your first official date and, lo and behold, they’re not at all who you think they were. They represented themselves so badly, so dishonestly, that when you met them you thought they were:
- charming
- a successful entrepreneur
- good looking
- sharp as a tack
In the light of day, they are:
- oddly racist
- trying to come up with “the next big app idea” out of their mom’s garage
- smelly
- dull
In today’s dating world, most people do not represent themselves authentically. When …
