Meditation can be a mystery. It brings up questions.
How do I meditate?
Am I meditating correctly?
What is the purpose of meditation?
I would like to begin with a story. The story takes place each morning when I am on my way to work. I drive to the end of my road, take a left onto another road and then take a right onto a highway that brings me to work.
Very often, in the evening, I drive to the end of my road, take a left onto another road, and take a right onto the highway when, actually, I should take a left to go to the grocery store. When I do this, I am on automatic pilot.
Have you ever been on automatic pilot while driving or when thinking? Each time we are on automatic pilot, we act in habitual ways and those habits become more and more ingrained – more fixed.
We may sit down for meditation, and rather than focusing on our breath, or observing our thoughts, we start making a list of things to do – or we start thinking about what someone said or did that we reacted to with annoyance or irritability.
We spend a lot of time thinking about the past and/or worrying about the future.
So, what is it like to be in the present moment and how can stay there? We can practice being in the present moment by meditating – by sitting quietly and observing what is happening right here, right now.
The next time you sit down to meditate, ask yourself:
- “What am I experiencing right now in my body?
- What physical sensations am I experiencing?
- What is my mind focusing on?
- What am I experiencing in my thoughts? What emotions am I experiencing?
- What is the feeling tone right now?”
When we acknowledge our experiences, even if those experiences are uncomfortable, we are dwelling in the present moment, we are being mindful.
When, in meditation, we find ourselves making a list of things to do later or compulsively thinking about what our partner said last night, we can bring our attention to the breath as an anchor to bring us back to the present moment and create stillness and awareness.
When we learn to be in the present moment in meditation, we are more likely to live in the present moment when we are working, when we are with our families, when we are with our friends and when we are on our own.
Larry Rosenberg outlines five steps of meditation practice.
1. Just do one thing at a time.
2. Pay full attention to what it is you are doing.
3. When the mind wanders from the present moment, bring it back.
4. Repeat step 3 several billion times!
5. Investigate your distractions.
And remember… meditation may be simple, but that does not mean it is easy!”
I am at a time in my life and have been for a years now, where I just can’t switch off. Where and how would I go about learning to meditate! What can it do for me? Please email me
It is very difficult for most of us to “switch off”. The mind is always “on”. There are many good books on meditation, but it is better to learn meditation with a teacher. Perhaps there are meditation classes offered where you live. And – you can take a class on meditation right here on the Wildmind site!