quote of the month

“Not being able to govern events, I govern myself.” Montaigne

I've been depressed a few times in my life, but only once has it ever got so bad that I…

March 30, 2015

“Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds.” George Eliot

Karma is one of the most misunderstood Buddhist teachings. Often people think of karma as some kind of external, impersonal…

October 27, 2014

“Nothing was ever so unfamiliar and startling to me as my own thoughts.” Henry David Thoreau

When I'm talking with people about the Buddhist teaching of non-self (anatta) they often say things like, "But how can…

December 10, 2013

“To be creative means to consider the whole process of life as a process of birth.” Eric Fromm

For social psychologist and psychoanalyst Erich Fromm, creativity wasn't necessarily about bringing something — a poem, a symphony, a sculpture…

August 26, 2013

“There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can’t control.” Marcus Aurelius (Day 80)

"There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can't control," wrote…

July 1, 2013

“To believe in the heroic makes heroes” Benjamin Disraeli

In the Path of Freedom, a 1st century meditation manual that I've mentioned a few times because it's the earliest…

June 3, 2013

“Perhaps everything terrifying is deep down a helpless thing that needs our help.” Rainer Maria Rilke

"Perhaps everything terrifying is deep down a helpless thing that needs our help," Rainer Maria Rilke wrote to a friend…

May 18, 2013

“No man chooses evil, because it is evil; he only mistakes it for happiness, the good he seeks.” Mary Wollstonecraft

Mary Wollstonecraft's words encapsulate perfectly something I've long held, which is that the Buddhist view of greed, hatred, and delusion…

April 4, 2013

“Whatever is well said is the word of the Buddha.” Maybe not.

As well as keeping things going at Wildmind, I run a site called "Fake Buddha Quotes," where I explore some…

July 11, 2012

“As a parent raises a child with deep love, care for water and rice as though they were your own children.” Dogen

So I was walking to the office the other day, when something rather lovely happened. Before I say what that…

March 27, 2012