Bodhipaksa
The whole Wildmind website is a marvel of form and content, even the least, the most laconical comment can bring one insight. I have been immersed in it for weeks, and have found help and inspiration aplenty. But this description of Metta, in its sobriety and, well, loving kindness, is the best I’ve read yet. Thank you.

[…] will no longer worry about infecting others with my negativity. I will however continue to send out metta every morning as I wind up my meditation sessions. That is something I am more than happy to infect […]

I was told by my brother that I live in a fantasy world when I told him we are responsible for each other,so on and so forth. I saw the word Metta and looked it up and found this definition and I realized THIS is how I feel!!!!! I had no idea there was a word for this feeling inside me.

[…] instructs us to try to bring a basic friendliness (or Metta) to our experience as best we […]

Yes, Metta puts a word to what I’ve felt for others my entire life. You are my brothers and sisters, how could I not feel and wish Metta for and upon you?

I have been trying to discipline myself for better meditation and come upon your site and am very interested and enchanted by metta.. Thank you

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[…] one’s self in actions and motives. Something I will explore in a later post is the practice of metta, or sending love to all beings. That is the great part about compassion; it widens the capacity of […]

Thank you for this text. There is lots for me to consider…. as well as the comments of others. THANK YOU ALL!

[…] a more meaningful experience. Regular mindfulness practice and other forms of meditation, such as Metta meditation has a positive impact on ourselves: it makes us “nicer”. This connection within, when […]

I would wager that metta is NOT empathy but sympathy instead. We do not need to walk a mile in someone’s shoes to understand that they are suffering. When you visit the doctor, does the doctor need to have your disease to diagnose and treat you? The answer is easily no. Empathy implies that we take on that person’s baggage but to do so would hold us back. We can love without having to be in their shoes, especially since in the grand scheme of things, we likely have walked in those shoes already.

[…] tons of meditation.  I discovered that with the meditation, I was calmer and more focused.  This page even claims that metta will solve most any problem.  While that may be an exaggeration, […]

[…] band mellan jordens alla varelser.  Det är ett tillstÃ¥nd som vi inom buddhismen beskriver som metta. Det är det mest tillfredsställande känslomässiga tillstÃ¥nd som vi kan uppleva. Det är […]

[…] heart. The practitioner’s touch is done through the act of unconditional loving-kindness known as Metta. By touching from the heart rather than the mind, love is transmitted through the massage and is […]

We can only imagine what it is like to walk in anothers shoes. No pair of feet are identical and our individual life experiences are unique. To be in someone else’s shoes, we can be only their shadow. To truly practice metta and lovingkindness, means to try and understand someone by practicing deep listening and empathetic understanding.

Metta is a super power! A real one!
(just some page feedback, this page had 3 pop up nag screens, it’s a bit intrusive)