100 Days of Lovingkindness

Five remembrances for deep peace (Day 90)

In learning to experience deep peace in the face of impermanence, we need to consider not just our inner experience,…

July 11, 2013

There’s nothing to hold onto; there’s nothing to do any holding on. (day 89)

I've been explaining how the practice of upekkha bhavana isn't really about equanimity, and how upekkha itself isn't really equanimity,…

July 10, 2013

The big turn-around (Day 88)

I started this 100 Days of Lovingkindness just after our new year drive to get people meditating regularly -- our…

July 9, 2013

Radiating peace (Day 87)

Upekkha involves closely (upa) watching (īkś) ourselves in order to develop insight, and the calm that follows from insight, and…

July 8, 2013

Acting with equanimity (Day 86)

I've always suspected that the Buddha had a hard time expressing himself, not because of any lack of ability of…

July 7, 2013

Upekkha as an insight practice (Day 85)

One of the things I love is that when you spend some time hanging out with a practice, you often…

July 6, 2013

Words of equanimity; wordless equanimity (Day 84)

So far in this 100 Days of Lovingkindness I haven't said anything about the phrases we use in cultivating equanimity…

July 5, 2013

The still, spacious, and vibrant mind of equanimity (and how to get there) (Day 83)

Sometimes I find it hard to write about equanimity. It's hard to make an absence of reactivity sound interesting. There's…

July 4, 2013

The “near enemy” of even-minded love (Day 82)

The traditional term "near enemy" points to some spiritually unhelpful quality or experience that can be mistaken for a helpful…

July 3, 2013

Equanimity’s “far enemies” (Day 81)

Buddhaghosa decribes the "far enemies" of equanimous love like this: "Greed and resentment ... are its far enemies ... for…

July 2, 2013