100 Days of Lovingkindness

Having gratitude for our enemies (Day 70)

Since my adversary assists me in my Bodhisattva way of life, I should long for him like a treasure discovered…

June 21, 2013

Innate purity versus original sin (Day 69)

One of my favorite lines in a movie is where a Freudian analyst (complete with thick Viennese accent) asks a…

June 20, 2013

Looking deeper for the good qualities of others (Day 68)

At first glance, and maybe at the second or third glances as well, it might seem odd that in the…

June 19, 2013

The magic ratio of appreciation (Day 67)

Appreciation of others' good qualities improves our lives and makes us happier. But it's great for them, too, and it…

June 18, 2013

There’s more right with you than wrong with you (Day 66)

In Full Catastrophe Living, Jon Kabat-Zinn writes, "As long as you are breathing, there is more right with you than…

June 17, 2013

Mudita Bhavana (Joyful Appreciation) guided meditation, led by Bodhipaksa (Day 65)

Here's a video of a guided meditation I led the other day on the practice of mudita bhavana, developing joyful…

June 16, 2013

The power of appreciative words: “Mishan’s Garden,” by James Vollbracht & Janet Brooke

"The greatest gift you can ever give another is to see what is best and unique about them." This morning…

June 15, 2013

Appreciation is contagious (Day 63)

When you practice joyful appreciation (mudita) or any of the related attitudes such as kindness (metta) or compassion (mudita), you…

June 14, 2013

The power of gratitude (day 62)

Robert A. Emmons, Ph.D., is the world’s leading scientific expert on gratitude. He's a professor of psychology at the University…

June 13, 2013

Learning to see the good in others (Day 61)

How open are we to the good qualities of others? Twenty years ago today, I was in the middle of…

June 12, 2013