appreciation

Mudita is not “sympathetic joy”

This is an extract from the introduction to my current course on Mudita, which is part of a longer series…

April 23, 2024

Reflections on the death of my mother

It's my birthday today, and it's unlike any I can remember from my now 63 years on this planet. It's…

January 4, 2024

How and why to cultivate gratitude

"It's not happiness that brings us gratitude. It's gratitude that beings us happiness." Why Practice Gratitude? Gratitude is good for…

July 28, 2022

Jack Kornfield: “The trouble is, you think you have time.”

Jack Kornfield, in Buddha’s Little Instruction Book, says, “The trouble is, you think you have time.” In other words, we…

June 18, 2018

The mind knows its own way home

When we're first learning to meditate, one of the things we have to get used to is that the mind…

August 21, 2017

A day without complaining

In Buddhist practice, we cultivate something called "mudita." Mudita is most commonly translated as "sympathetic joy," which can sound a…

May 26, 2016

To motivate yourself to meditate, celebrate!

Although I've been meditating for over 30 years, I have to confess (and have done so often) that for most…

April 20, 2016

Gratitude promotes patience

I wasn't surprised today to learn that a new study has found a connection between gratitude and patience. After all,…

March 31, 2014

What do you give?

Giving — to others, to the world, to oneself — is deep in our nature as human beings. When our…

October 23, 2013

Appreciation and impermanence (Day 73)

Jack Kornfield, in his lovely Buddha's Little Instruction Book, says "The trouble is, you think you have time." He doesn't…

June 24, 2013