ethics

Democracy and spiritual practice

Because of the alarming political situation in the US, which has parallels with events in other countries, I've been writing…

July 1, 2025

Stay in touch with the good

As human beings, we are psychologically porous. We're open to influences from outside ourselves, including others' words and actions. That's…

April 25, 2025

Mythbusting the name “Siddhartha”

This is one of a series of articles where I’ve been mythbusting things people “know” about the Buddha. These myths…

March 22, 2025

The puzzle of “skillful” and “unskillful” as ethical terms

One of the things that struck me as odd when I first encountered the Buddha’s teachings was the terms he…

December 8, 2023

Can empathy be unhelpful?

One of the members of Wildmind's community reminded me recently of an article, "The Surprising Downsides of Empathy," that appeared…

February 20, 2023

Liking yourself is not the antidote to hating yourself

You might think that the antidote to self-hatred is liking yourself. But is that desirable, or even possible? We all…

May 8, 2019

Three reasons to be for yourself (book extract)

Compassion for yourself is fundamental, since if you don’t care how you feel and want to do something about it,…

March 16, 2018

Embrace your full potential by living skillfully

The Buddha's cousin, Ananda, once asked him what the benefit of living skillfully was. The Buddha answered that skillful living…

February 24, 2018

To be a better person, stop trying to be a good person

Recently I've been realizing more and more that it's unhelpful to want to see yourself as a good person. That…

January 30, 2018

“We forget our faults easily when they are known only to ourselves.” Francois de la Rochefoucauld

Just as we can't see what we look like unless we encounter a mirror, often we don't know what we're…

November 22, 2017