feelings

Self-compassion for troubling times

At the moment lot of people are suffering more than usual. They are anxious, exhausted, and overwhelmed about the awful…

February 24, 2025

Create a space of compassion, and live from it

In the immediate aftermath of the US presidential election, most people I know were shocked. Since then they seem to be…

November 26, 2024

In lovingkindness practice, don’t look for love; look with love

I remember one time, not long after I'd first learned to meditate, I was being guided through the lovingkindness (metta…

February 24, 2023

Love isn’t what you look for; it’s how you look

In one of my early experiences of lovingkindness meditation (metta bhavana), a teacher told me to look for feelings of…

February 4, 2020

Becoming more mindful of our feelings

The "first foundation" of mindfulness is the body, which involves being aware of the physical sensations of the body, the…

May 14, 2019

The third arrow

The weekend that my wife told me she wanted a divorce, she took our kids away so that she could…

February 5, 2019

Seeing experience as a movie

In my last post I said I'd been teaching meditations based on a Buddhist discourse called the Honeyball or Honeycake Sutta.…

November 23, 2018

Peace is right here, right now

For the past month I've been recording a series of daily guided meditations, taking as my basis the teachings in…

November 14, 2018

Your happiness does not depend on how you feel

Recently I've been feeling, on and off, kind of crappy. A lot of the time I'm fine, but then heavy,…

October 15, 2018

A “feeling crap” meditation

I'm sure that sometimes you feel crap. The other week I was feeling particularly crappy. I have an idea what…

September 20, 2018