love

From fear and denial to love and acceptance

In the opening words to his book “The Road Less Traveled,” the late psychiatrist M. Scott Peck says: Life is…

April 16, 2019

Be lived by love

Feeling both the world and myself these days, one phrase keeps calling: lived by love. Explicitly, this means coming from…

December 20, 2017

Seven ways meditation can help you be a better lover

Although Buddhist meditation was originally practiced mostly by celibate monks and nuns, who were not only forbidden from having sex…

February 14, 2017

How to love: Legendary Zen Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh on mastering the art of “interbeing”

Maria Popova, Brain Pickings: “To love without knowing how to love wounds the person we love.” What does love mean,…

April 1, 2015

The realm of giving and generosity

The specific meaning of “dana” is giving, which is related to the quality of “caga” (in Pali), or generosity. The…

March 6, 2015

The art of self-forgiveness

Everyone messes up. Me, you, the neighbors, Mother Teresa, Mahatma Gandhi, King David, the Buddha, everybody. It’s important to acknowledge…

October 10, 2014

The dance of intimacy and autonomy

Love tends to join and hate to separate, but joining is not the same as love, and separation is not…

July 31, 2014

Attention: The most basic form of love

On my son Narayan’s sixth birthday, I gave him an ant farm. He spent hours watching with fascination as the…

July 18, 2014

Be amazed

Last night, stressing about undone tasks, I glanced in a mirror and saw my t-shirt, with its picture of a…

July 16, 2014

Is your marriage on the rocks? Mindfulness could be the key to saving your relationship

Sophie Donnelly, Express: It has been used to combat depression, stress and over-eating. Now a new book says this meditation…

June 19, 2014