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Julie Deardorff, Chicago Tribune: Meditation is a brain-boosting, stress-busting activity embraced by everyone from the U.S. military to corporate executives. And if you’re living a busy, hectic life – and can’t fathom finding time to sit cross-legged in a quiet room – you’re an ideal candidate too.

“The people who race through their life are usually the ones who could use some focus and serenity,” said Tamara Gerlach, a San Francisco-based meditation teacher.

Every day thousands of thoughts zip through our heads, something Gerlach likens to a jar of dirty water: Keep shaking up the jar and it will remain clouded. But “if we set the jar down, letting the dirt particles settle to the bottom, it leaves clarity at the top.”

Meditation, proponents say, teaches you how to replace the mental chatter in your head with stillness. This ability helps us live more consciously.

Q: What is meditation?

A: It’s the “art and practice of being present for your life,” said meditation teacher Elesa Commerse. The key words here are “art and practice.” Meditation re- quires effort and patience, especially in the beginning. One of the biggest obstacles for beginners is that they get bored or expect Dalai Lama-like results overnight. Meditation can be relaxing, but relaxing isn’t meditation. Meditation is sitting with a purpose.

Q: How does it work?

A: There are many forms, but all involve focusing on a single stimulus, such as your breath, a particular word, or an image. Get your body in a comfortable position. When random thoughts barge into your head, label it as “a thought” and bring your attention back to your chosen stimulus, such as your breath.

“It’s like training a puppy,” Jack Kornfield said in “Meditation for Beginners.” “You say ‘stay,’ but after a few breaths, the puppy wanders away. You go back and gently pick it up and bring it back.” Kornfield says learning to sit still and become mindful is one of the most important forms of meditation.

Q: When should I meditate?

A: Whenever you can. Executive meditation coach Mark Thornton was once chief operating officer for JP Morgan; he found that taking micro-meditation breaks while moving during the day could be just as profound as going on a retreat. “I thought meditation was something you did on your own; in fact it can be an integral part of the day,” said Thornton, author of “Meditation in a New York Minute.”

Q: Can I meditate while I ride a bike or run?

A: It’s possible to practice mindfulness in any activity, said Joseph Goldstein, who has led meditation retreats worldwide since 1974. “It means paying attention to what we’re doing, rather than having our minds wander.”

Q: How do I fight boredom?

A: Actually, boredom is a sign that meditation is working. “It means you’re learning to shift your attention away from your mind, which wants complex puzzles to solve,” said Thornton. If you’re bored, you may have lost sight that every moment in life is unique, Commerse said. “When you’re in the present moment, “every leaf, blade of grass, brush of wind, bird song, baby’s cry, every everything becomes magical, alive, discoverable and infused with the ability to transform your life,” she said.

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Want to get enlightened? Here are some tips.

Last night I taught the first night of a class on achieving Insight through meditation.

This being the first night there was a bit more talking than there will be in the rest of the four-week course, so I thought I’d record the talk, in which I discuss why we should think more about getting Enlightened, what holds us back, and what we need to do to set up conditions for Insight arising.

I also recorded the guided meditation that I led.

By the way, I had a cold, so there’s some coughing, hacking, and nose-blowing!

Both the talk and the meditation are unedited, and the sound quality isn’t great.

Here’s the talk, which is 41 minutes long:

The meditation was in three parts:

1. A brief mindfulness of breathing
2. A brief period of lovingkindness
3. A reflection on the Earth Element

Here’s the meditation, which is 45 minutes long. All three parts are included in this recording.

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Ten tips for priming an effortless meditation

Kuan Yin statue stands above the clouds on a hilltop.

Meditation teacher and life-coach Srimati offers a ten-stage guide to getting the most out of your meditation practice.

1. Decide what you are doing

Before you start meditating, be clear how long you will sit for and what kind of meditation practice you will do. Have a silent watch or clock within sight so you can open your eyes and peek at the time if you need to. You may notice that you soon don’t need a clock. Before long you will instinctively ‘feel’ that the time you’ve allocated is up and it’s time to come out of meditation.

2. Choose your time

It makes a big difference if you can stick to the same time to meditate every day (or every other day or every week – whatever routine you establish). If you pick your time and stick to it you don’t have to keep re-making the decision to meditate and figuring out when. It just becomes part of your day or week.

First thing in the morning is great. It’s well worth getting up half an hour earlier to give yourself this start to the day. Some people prefer last thing at night when everything is over. Or perhaps your best time is when you get home from taking the kids to school. Or maybe after getting home from work and just before dinner.

Whatever time you pick, have a satisfied tummy – neither hungry nor overfull. Choose your time and make it part of your daily or weekly routine.

3. Find your quiet spot

Find a place where you can be quiet and undisturbed. Be in a room on your own (unless others are meditating with you). Unplug your phone and switch off your mobile. Be out of earshot of TV or radio. Let others know to leave you in peace.

It’s nice to set the scene for yourself. Perhaps face a garden window or a vase of flowers or an inspiring picture. Burn some incense or essential oils. Make this your special meditation spot. You will find that this place will start to have a peaceful atmosphere, a meditation ‘vibe’.

4. Be comfortable

Find a chair where you can sit comfortably in an alert, upright position. A dining room chair is good, or an easy chair. You can also prop yourself up at the head of a bed. Undo any tight clothing, buttons or zips.

Wherever you are sitting, support your back with cushions so that your spine is reasonably straight and your head and neck is free. If you are on a dining room chair you can put a cushion under your feet. If you are in an easy chair you can see if you prefer having your legs folded up cross-legged. If so, make sure your knees are supported with cushions if needed.

Some people like to sit on a pile of cushions on the floor, or a meditation stool. If so, put a blanket down first as a mat, then your cushions or stool on top. Two or three firm cushions are about right. At the right height your back is not bowing or arching but relatively straight.

You can straddle the cushions like a horse, or sit with your legs folded in front of you cross-legged. Support your knees by tucking extra cushions under them if they don’t reach the ground so you can relax at the hips.

However you sit, you should have a strong base – a tripod of your backside and your two knees. Have your hands resting in your lap. Tying a shawl or scarf at your tummy gives a little shelf to rest your hands on if you like.

There’s always the option to lie down on a bed or the floor if you think you’d be most comfortable like this. The only draw back is that you may find yourself feeling sleepier than if you were sitting upright. None the less, the number one priority is that you are comfortable. So if lying down is right for you, that’s fine.

If you get stiff or pins and needles while you are meditating, gently and slowly move and re-position yourself and carry on. However, the idea is to find out how to sit completely comfortably for an extended period of time without having to move, so keep playing with your posture until you get it just right.

When you are settled, close your eyes lightly, or have them slightly open if you are very sleepy or disoriented.

5. Let the weight drop down

Take several big, long, deep, deliberate, audible breaths. As you breathe out, let your weight drop down through the sitting bones – down, down, down through your seat and the floor into the ground.

Even as we let our weight drop down, we are also aware of an invisible force supporting us upright. It’s as though we have a taut string attached the crown of our head, reminding us of our natural poise and alertness. The more we relax and drop down, the more we feel effortlessly supple and upright.

6. Relax and soften

Relaxing further, roll your shoulders a few times each way. Then move your head gently from side to side. Make some wild faces to release your face muscles (nobody’s looking!). Let your jaw hang slightly slack and your tongue be free.

You can use your hands to gently massage your jaw, cheeks and forehead. Carry on over the scalp and down the back of your neck. Give your shoulders a bit of a squeeze then stroke down your arms to your fingers.

Continue down the body with your hands, squeezing or stroking all the way down to your toes. You can hang over your toes for a while. Keep breathing easily and slowly uncurl. Finally, shake out your hands and finish with a nice stretch. Come back to a relaxed, upright sitting posture again.

Take a few more strong breaths. Let your tummy be soft. Check your jaw is still slack and that the tongue is free.

7. Drop into the breath.

Notice how you are breathing now, however it wants to come and go. Feel how it is to be breathing, how you feel inside yourself, the rhythm of the breath as it comes and goes. Let yourself be filled with breath. It’s as though your whole body is breathing, expanding and contracting with every in and out breath. Feel your breath right down to your toes, to the tips of your fingers, to the roots of your hair.

8. Give your head a rest

As you’re breathing, you may be aware of questions and preoccupations rippling around in your mind. It probably feels like its going on in your head. However, invite your thinking mind to rest for a little while. It’s not needed for few minutes.

Soften your eyes, let your eyes go soft and dewy (even though your eyes are closed you can do that) and let the brain itself feel slack in your head. Just feel the breath going in and out the body. Breathe in and out and let all those thought particles fall through the breath like dust particles falling through the air in a sunny room. Let them all fall to the ground.

9. Feel into your heart

Breathing into the body, notice how you are physically feeling around your heart area in your chest. Can you feel if it is tight or relaxed? Can you feel if your heart feels nice, or if it feels pain, or somewhere in between? Can you feel if your heart feels far away or if it feels very vivid and acute and present?

And whatever it is or isn’t, just noticing it as you breathe. Feeling the texture and the tone of our heart. You might be aware that there is a kind of atmosphere – an emotional atmosphere around your heart. You might not have a name for it, but you can feel its ambiance, its flavor. Perhaps you can even sense its color – the color of your emotional heart right now.

Breathe this emotional atmosphere, this ‘heartness’ into the whole of yourself. Let it circulate with the breath.

10. Being with all that you are

Continue to breathe with all that you are – all that you think, all that you feel, all that you sense and all that you know. Gather yourself into the breath and let yourself drop into the vastness of your total being. Getting into this zone is a meditation in itself and you need do nothing more. However you are now ready for a further focused meditation if that is what you have chosen. Enjoy.

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Meditation: concentration training (Daily Press, Virginia)

Methawee Bhikkhu, Guest Columnist, Daily Press, Virginia: The Buddha said, “There is no meditation without wisdom, no wisdom without meditation. One who has both wisdom and meditation is close to peace and emancipation.”

Meditation requires concentration. There are 40 techniques, or exercises, in concentration training. One technique is the mindfulness of breathing.

This technique is a very convenient practice because everyone has to breathe in and out. It can be used anytime and anywhere, as long as one is constantly aware of the process.

Here’s a brief explanation of the mindfulness of breathing exercise:

Find a quiet place to sit that is conducive to peace. It is helpful to have the right atmosphere. But even if this is not possible, it can still be performed.

Find any posture that enables the body to relax and that is the most comfortable for a long period of sitting. One must be able to breathe easily.

The best posture is cross-legged or sitting upright with the right leg on top of the left one. Hands should be on the lap, with the right hand on top of the left, thumbs touching, or the right forefinger touching the left thumb.

If this is not possible, one can sit upright in a chair or take any other comfortable posture. However, if the sitting brings any tension, it will not be the right practice and it should be corrected before continuation.

Eyes can be opened or closed as long as you are not distracted. One should look downcast with the opened eyes or fix the gaze on the tip of the nose.

After sitting comfortably, one should take deep, long breaths to fill the lungs, breathing out slowly each time. At the same time, try to develop the feeling that the body is not solid and the head is light until the mind is reasonably peaceful. Then, breathe normally but with an awareness of the in-and-out breathing.

When breathing in and out deeply, be aware of one breath in and one breath out deeply. When breathing in and out shallowly, be aware of the one breath in and out shallowly. Do not control the breaths, but be mindful of them.

For a beginner, counting the breaths will help to control the mind and stop wandering thoughts. If the mind is very restless, start to count the breathing in pairs — In-Out 1, In-Out 2 — up to 10 breaths. Or try to fix one’s attention at the tip on the nose, where the breath touches, or on the upper lip without following the movement of the breath through the body.

There are many benefits to meditation.

Meditation gives us a clear mind and clear comprehension to carry out our duties in daily life in a peaceful way, without conflict in the family, at school or in the work place. Meditation helps us to maintain physical health and mental clarity with equanimity.

Meditation enables us to face all kinds of problems and difficulties in our daily life with confidence. It teaches us to adjust ourselves to bear with the numerous obstacles encountered in life and in the changing modern world.

Meditation helps to conquer mental defilements that pollute the mind. If you practice meditation, you will learn to behave like a true human being even when you are upset or disturbed by others.

Meditation helps us cultivate loving kindness, compassion, inner peace, sympathetic joy and equanimity. It prevents us from attaching ourselves to hatred, greed, craving, selfishness, jealousy and all unwholesome or negative thoughts as well as moderating excessive and extreme positive mental states.

Methawee Bhikkhu is a missionary monk from Thailand who is part of Wat Pasantidhamma Buddhist temple in Carrollton.

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Health Tip: Handling Stress (HealthDay News)

Anne Thompson, HealthDay: Modern life is full of time pressure and frustration. Stress develops when the demands in your life exceed your ability to cope with them.

Here, then, are some helpful coping techniques from the Mayo Clinic:

  • Your body requires a healthy diet and adequate rest. Exercise also helps, by distracting you from stressful events and releasing your nervous energy.
  • Learn to relax. It’s the polar opposite of the stress response. Deep-breathing exercises may put you in a relaxed state.

Follow these steps to decompress:

  • Inhale through your nose to a count of 10. As you inhale, your upper abdomen should rise, not your chest.
  • Exhale slowly and completely, to a count of 10.
  • Repeat five to 10 times. Try to do this several times every day, even when you’re not feeling stressed.
  • If you have persistent trouble relaxing, consider taking up meditation or studying yoga or tai chi. Therapeutic massage may also loosen taut muscles and calm frazzled nerves.

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Meditation serves different purposes (Akron Beacon Journal, Ohio)

One time I got a call from a priest, irked because I had written something about meditation in the context of Buddhist philosophy.

“I’ve been meditating for 30 years,” he told me. “This isn’t just an eastern thing.

No, it’s not. The idea of uncluttering our minds transcends faiths and cultures. It’s for all of us. And teachings about meditation can be found in any age, whether in Christianity or Judaism, Native American wisdom or world literature.

“Only that day dawns to which we are awake,” Henry David Thoreau wrote in Walden.

In his book Wherever You Are There You Go, Jon Kabat-Zinn described meditation as “the systematic cultivation of wakefulness, of present-moment awareness.” It means we pay attention, on purpose, in the here and now, without passing judgment on anything.

Meditation is a path of self-development. It can mean different things to different people. Some may hope to connect to a higher spirit. Others may seek a sense of harmony and oneness with the universe. Still others may want to relieve stress or get rid of chronic headache pain.

A reader named Bernard, who recently visited our book club forums discussion page at www.ohio.com, asked the fundamental question of how one begins to meditate. Bernard wanted to know if he had to chant.

The answer is that there is no single way to meditate, and you don’t have to chant. Another reader, going by the name Strings, added this perspective: “The best advice I can offer for anyone interested in starting is to eliminate any preformed opinions or ideas, and experience it directly. Simply sit, sit, sit. Then use that same mindfulness throughout your daily life and everything you do.”

Kabat-Zinn, who founded the Stress Reduction Clinic at the University of Massachusetts Medical Center, said in his book that the idea is not to try to get anywhere to make something happen, but just to stop and be present in the moment at hand.

You may experience new things. Or you may not.

On the question of posture, it’s whatever works for you. It is common to sit. But you may also stand, walk or lie down.

In his book, Kabat-Zinn offered a wonderful description of what mountains teach us about meditation.
This is the essence: We hold mountains sacred, yet they also embody a sense of dread. They are harsh yet majestic. They are made of rock, solid and of the earth. They show us the natural world in panoramic view.

Yet “the mountain just sits, being itself,” in Kabat-Zinn’s words. All around, there may be violent storms, snow, unfathomable winds. Still the mountain sits.

Or it may be spring when birds sing and flowers bloom. Still the mountain sits.

The mountain is unmoved by what happens on the surface and around it.

Similarly, we experience periods of ups and downs, lightness and darkness, in our own lives.

“The weather of our own lives is not to be ignored or denied,” Kabat-Zinn wrote. “It is to be encountered, honored, felt, known for what it is, and held in high awareness since it can kill us. In holding it in this way, we come to know a deeper silence and stillness and wisdom than we may have thought possible, right within the storms.

We can become firm and unmoving, he said, while at the same time soft, gentle and flowing.

Other readings on meditation, from various writers, are posted on the forums discussion page. You can also find the latest newsletter which discusses a particular method of meditation.

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Seven helpful hints for meditating (Warwick Beacon, Rhode Island)

Claudia Botthof, Warwick Beacon, RI: Daily demands of everyday living can be draining and stressful, leading to insomnia, digestive problems, headaches, irritability, depression, ulcers and some cancers. Social relationships can suffer because there is just no more room for understanding and caring about somebody else’s problem. Unless you take care of yourself you cannot take care of somebody else. Finding the “inner peace” within yourself let’s you deal with everyday problems with new energy and a new outlook on life.

Meditation has been around for centuries and is used to quiet the mind and to promote self-knowledge and self-mastering. Through focusing and maintaining attention, the mind is brought to the present – not in “what happened yesterday” or “what will happen tomorrow.” Meditation provides solitude, the ability to be comfortable by oneself, and calmness of the mind and body. Meditation produces brainwaves that relax the mind to a point where it can reduce blood pressure, muscle tension and control breathing patterns. With daily practice meditation can be the tool to deal with daily stress efficiently.

Meditation requires the active mind to be able to focus on an object, image, phrase, word, sound or one’s own breath. Even though the mind is alert, yet it is calm and focused. Meditation is usually done in an upright sitting position with one foot placed on top of the other. The hands or fingers are creating a closed circuit presenting certain symbols and emotions. There are different breathing patterns such as “Breath of Fire,” “Alternate Nostril Breath” and “Cooling Breath.” Each type of breath will have a different effect on the body and mind. The “Ohm” sound has four different parts “ah/oh/mmm/silence.” It is considered the “Sound of all Sounds, the Sound of the Universe, the Sound of Creation and the Beginning of Life.” The benefits include but are not limited to releasing tension and dispel negative energy, feeling at total peace and being filled with new energy.

Meditation can be done without any attachment to any religion and is usually part of yoga. As yoga provides benefits to the body and mind, adding meditation further enriches the total being. The experience of yoga and meditation is unique to each individual and comes in many forms.

Here are some helpful hints to get started:

  • Before meditation do some form of exercise such as yoga, or walking to release restlessness.
  • Do some breathing exercises before meditation this will calm the mind.
  • Do yoga in the morning or at night, preparing the mind for the day or releasing tension before the night.
  • Use the same place and same time in a quiet environment.
  • Build up the time of stillness and meditation. Start with 5 minutes daily and build up to 45 minutes, three times a week.
  • When sitting check your body for muscle tension and let go.
  • When the mind wanders and emotions come up, acknowledge them and bring your focus back to your point of focus.

As with every skill in life, meditation takes time to learn and to master. Give yourself permission to practice the skill of meditation. Take some time for yourself each day to find your inner peace, so you can be there for all the other people when they need you.

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Utah Buddhists share meditation tips

Brigham Young University: Members from several different sects of Buddhism came to the Jordan Peace Park in Salt Lake City, Saturday, June 7, for music, poetry, dancing and meditation.

Change Your Mind Day, a Buddhist gathering, takes place in over 30 cities across the United States.

This year marked the third annual celebration of the event in Utah.

During the tradition, different Buddhists come together to teach and learn meditation techniques from a variety of Buddhist traditions.

“The teachings and meditations focus on awareness and compassion, and they are appreciated by anyone wanting more spiritual understanding,” said Rande Brown, the national Change Your Mind Day coordinator. “Change Your Mind Day reflects the Buddhist concept that if we transform our thinking from confusion to wisdom, we will have much happier lives.”

Shirley Ray, a resident of Salt Lake City and an organizer of the event, said many people have misconceptions about Buddhism.

Buddhism is not a religion but rather a way of thought, Ray said.

In Buddhism, there is no church and there is no hierarchy, someone simply chooses the way of thought and they do it for themselves, Ray said.

“What we teach is how to meditate and to listen to your inner wisdom and to know your own mind,” she said. “That is the only reason for mediation – to sit and watch the mind.”

Ray said Western Buddhism comes from many different stems of Buddhism that intermingle and converge.

“Each sect of Buddhism is a cultural-based expression of Buddhism,” she said. “Since the turn of the century, we have been developing a Western Buddhism, so that it reflects our culture, like in other Asian cultures,” Ray said.

Change Your Mind Day is unique because it brings together a tapestry of beliefs and approaches found only in Western Buddhism, Ray said.

Roberta Chase, a Salt Lake City resident attending the gathering, was drawn to the Buddhist way of thought five years ago because of the example of a Tibetan family.

Chase said she noticed how peaceful, kind and loving the family was, and she found a greater respect for the things of this life.

“I came to realize that I could be a better person by incorporating some of the principles they lived by,” she said. “It has given me more respect for life and an appreciation for people.”

Chase said the Buddhist way is much a philosophical, rather than a religious practice.

“Buddhism does not address the idea of a God, so you can live your life according to these ideas and be any religion,” she said. “There is no conflict.”

Chase said they don’t worship Buddha either and that Western culture often has a misunderstanding about how they worship.

Chase said it is a tradition to bow to the Buddha, and it is much like saying hello.

“When Westerners see this, they think that we are bowing to a golden statue,” she said. “Buddha was only a man, a teacher who came up with these ideas.”

This is how Buddhists show respect and tradition, and how they greet each other, Chase said. She said they bow to friends and family as well.

Chase said this change of thought has helped her in her life.

“It’s inspirational,” she said. “It’s a practice that you can use every moment of your life especially in being kind to everyone and not excluding anyone or anything.”

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