metta bhavana

Publication Day! The Heart’s Awakening

It's always an interesting day when one of your books is published. It's exciting. But you're sending your inmost thoughts…

October 14, 2025

Books and cats

It was lovely to receive this photograph the other day. This is Mara, one of the people who wrote an…

August 29, 2025

In lovingkindness practice, don’t look for love; look with love

I remember one time, not long after I'd first learned to meditate, I was being guided through the lovingkindness (metta…

February 24, 2023

Love isn’t what you look for; it’s how you look

In one of my early experiences of lovingkindness meditation (metta bhavana), a teacher told me to look for feelings of…

February 4, 2020

Seven tips for people who struggle with lovingkindness practice

In the tradition I practice in, lovingkindness (metta bhavana) and mindfulness meditation are considered equally important, and yet my own…

March 14, 2019

This simple tweak to the way you write emails might change your entire day

How many emails do you write in the average day? I just did a quick count and yesterday alone it…

February 2, 2018

Seven minutes of meditation can reduce racial prejudice

A popular meditation technique that’s intended to create feelings of kindness can also reduce prejudice, according to new University of…

March 16, 2016

Lovingkindness meditation, using natural language

When I was first taught the metta bhavana ("development of lovingkindness") practice, back in the early 1980s, I was encouraged…

November 12, 2015

After meditation, self-critical people ease up

Ann Lukits, Wall Street Journal: Self-critical people were significantly kinder and more compassionate toward themselves after practicing lovingkindness meditation compared…

October 15, 2015

We can teach our brains to feel more compassion

Mindful.org: Scientific evidence shows that we can train the brain to feel more compassion—for others and for ourselves. Another science-based…

October 23, 2014