present moment

“This is just how things are right now”

I've been practicing and teaching self-compassion for a long time now. My book on that topic, "This Difficult Thing of…

December 2, 2025

Making the most of this precious human birth

Someone asked me the other day whether there was a contradiction between the Buddha saying that "life is suffering" and…

September 14, 2020

The deep practice of just being peace

Recently I've been reading The Buddha Before Buddhism, by Gil Fronsdal, which is a translation of what is believed to…

May 28, 2018

Seven ways to collect and concentrate your mind and energy

I’m old enough to remember a time when people usually answered “good” when you asked them the standard, “How are…

January 8, 2018

“Everyone rushes elsewhere, and into the future, for no one has reached his own self.” Montaigne

Montaigne's words (it's "Chacun court ailleurs et à  l'advenir, d'autant que nul n'est arrivé à soy" in the original French) are…

September 3, 2015

“But right now … right now”

You know the standard advice: when you notice during meditation that the mind has been caught up in thinking rather…

December 22, 2014

Settling the Mind: You Have Allies

Meditation means settling the mind, but if you try it you’ll quickly find that this is easier said than done.…

July 1, 2014

“Being in the moment”

Over and over again, you'll hear Buddhist teachers talking about the need to "be in the present moment," but interestingly…

March 21, 2014

Taking care of the present moment

I've been having a well-earned rest from blogging after completing our 100 Days of Lovingkindness, during which time I managed…

August 9, 2013

There’s nothing to hold onto; there’s nothing to do any holding on. (day 89)

I've been explaining how the practice of upekkha bhavana isn't really about equanimity, and how upekkha itself isn't really equanimity,…

July 10, 2013