Radical Acceptance

Absolute cooperation with the inevitable

The modern-day mystic and Jesuit priest Anthony de Mello once said: “Enlightenment is absolute cooperation with the inevitable.” This statement…

October 24, 2013

From self-judgment to compassion

We were three days into a weeklong meditation retreat when one of my students, Daniel, came in to see me…

September 19, 2013

Joy…

Not too long ago, my ex-husband, Alex, brought us a big batch of his homemade almond butter. It is such…

August 15, 2013

The trance of fear

All of us live with fear. Whenever fear takes over, we’re caught in what I call the trance of fear.…

July 24, 2013

From longing to belonging

The great Tibetan yogi Milarepa spent many years living in isolation in a mountain cave. As part of his spiritual…

July 17, 2013

The space between the logs

This is from a poem that I love. It’s called, “Fire” by Judy Brown. What makes a fire burn is…

June 27, 2013

Living whole-heartedly

The happiest people I know have something in common: they are whole-hearted in how they engage in their lives...whole-hearted in…

June 6, 2013

“I realized I don’t have to believe my thoughts.”

Our mindfulness practice is not about vanquishing our thoughts. It’s about becoming aware of the process of thinking so that…

April 18, 2013

The sacred art of listening – nourishing loving relationships

To listen is to lean in softly With a willingness to be changed By what we hear -Mark Nepo What…

April 10, 2013

Pain is not wrong

Many years ago when I was pregnant with my son, I decided to have a home birth without drugs, assisted…

June 29, 2012