romantic love

Seven ways meditation can help you be a better lover

Although Buddhist meditation was originally practiced mostly by celibate monks and nuns, who were not only forbidden from having sex…

February 14, 2017

Meditation helps pinpoint neurological differences between two types of love

Bill Hathaway, Yale News: These findings won’t appear on any Hallmark card, but romantic love tends to activate the same…

February 11, 2014

What does your heart say?

The Practice Choose to love. Why? Many years ago, I was in a significant relationship in which the other person…

January 16, 2014

What do you call metta?

What's your preferred translation of "metta"? As a kind of postscript to our recent Urban Retreat, which was on the…

November 27, 2013

What do you give?

Giving — to others, to the world, to oneself — is deep in our nature as human beings. When our…

October 23, 2013

Portlandia’s Vipassana Romance

A third season of Portlandia -- a Peabody Award-winning satiric sketch comedy television series, set and filmed in (and near)…

November 8, 2012

Radical acceptance of desire

When I was first introduced to Buddhism in a high school World Studies class, I dismissed it out-of-hand. This was…

July 12, 2012

Meditate for a date

Gabrielle Bernstein, Metro: Let’s face it: Though romantic relationships can be wonderful, sometimes they are totally nightmarish. While there are…

February 6, 2012

Fill the hole in your heart

As we grow up and then move through adulthood, we all have normal needs for safety, fulfillment, and love. For…

November 10, 2011

Breathe in, breathe out, fall in love

A New York Times article about the phenomenon of "Vipassana Romance" (falling in love on retreat): At that point in…

November 12, 2010