100 Days of Lovingkindness

Cultivating appreciative joy (Day 51)

The third of the Brahmaviharas, or "immeasurables," after lovingkindness and compassion, is muditā. Muditā is sometimes translated as sympathetic joy,…

June 2, 2013

The pursuit of happiness (Day 64)

We all want happiness, but much joy do you experience in your life? And I mean real "heart welling up,"…

June 1, 2013

There is no one to have compassion, no one to have compassion for (Day 50)

A couple of times people have contacted me saying that self-compassion is not possible. Both times they've quoted dictionary definitions…

May 31, 2013

An awareness imbued with compassion (Day 49)

"...an individual keeps pervading the first direction — as well as the second direction, the third, and the fourth —…

May 30, 2013

Compassion and impermanence (Day 48)

As I wrote in my book, Living as a River: Relating to someone as a “self”—on the basis of how…

May 29, 2013

Dealing with resentment (Day 47)

Resentment is seductive. We assume on some level that it's going to help us, but it doesn't. It just causes…

May 28, 2013

Living with a heart of tenderness (Day 46)

Yesterday I wrote about how the Buddha, when he was in agony after having been injured, kept the suffering of…

May 27, 2013

Compassion as an antidote for our own suffering (Day 45)

I've often written about how experiencing compassion for ourselves can naturally spill over to experiencing compassion for other people. When…

May 26, 2013

Seeing with the eyes of compassion (Day 44)

We can see beings with the eyes of compassion, or with the eyes of utility. We almost literally live in…

May 25, 2013

Bearing compassion in mind (Day 43)

I'd like to suggest a simple practice for you. For the next hour or so, let the first thought you…

May 24, 2013