anatta (non-self)

The three marks of human existence

When we turn our life over to the Dharma, we surrender to the teachings of the Buddha. What are those…

August 5, 2013

This is not me; this is not mine, I am not this (Day 95)

Once I was walking into town when I was hit by what felt like a crushing tidal wave of embarrassment.…

July 16, 2013

Lay your burden down (Day 93)

To recap, upekkha is the desire that beings (ourselves included) know the profound peace of awakening. Since lovingkindness is the…

July 14, 2013

Even-mindedness and the two arrows (Day 79)

Upekkha, or even-minded love, is the fourth of the series of meditations we're looking at in our 100 Days of…

June 30, 2013

“A person of integrity is grateful and thankful” — The Buddha (Day 74)

The Buddha, in Bhikkhu Thanissaro's translation at least, said, "A person of integrity is grateful and thankful." This is one…

June 25, 2013

The Dhammapada: “one of the greatest psychological works ever written”

Jonathan Haidt, who studies morality and emotion at the NYU-Stern School of Business, discusses the Buddhist classic, The Dhammapada, on…

June 12, 2013

There is no one to have compassion, no one to have compassion for (Day 50)

A couple of times people have contacted me saying that self-compassion is not possible. Both times they've quoted dictionary definitions…

May 31, 2013

Compassion is not superiority (Day 42)

It's very easy for us to assume that the one who feels compassion is in some way superior to the…

May 23, 2013

Powerless over our thoughts

For many, negative thinking is a habit, which over time, becomes an addiction... A lot of people suffer from this…

May 6, 2013

Reflections on Samsara

If we believe that we are not responsible for our mental suffering then we are implying we are helpless. If…

April 1, 2013