anatta (non-self)

Love yourself, and your self will love you back

This post is part of our 100-Day Meditation Challenge. This week one of my students described how she tends to…

March 16, 2013

Gratitude, creativity, and the “boys in the basement”

Last night I sat without a timer, or rather using a stick of incense to time my sit. Recently I…

March 11, 2013

Listening as a meditation practice

For Day 45 of Wildmind's 100 Day Meditation Challenge I wanted to post something I wrote in response to one…

February 14, 2013

Letting meditation happen: Day 22 of Wildmind’s 100 Day Meditation Challenge

Have you ever had the experience that you've been experiencing distractedness in meditation, and you return from a distraction only…

January 22, 2013

Let it R.A.I.N.

When you’re young, the territory of the psyche is like a vast estate, with rolling hills, forests and plains, swamps…

September 4, 2012

The dance of allowing

There is no controlling life. Try corralling a lightning bolt, containing a tornado. Dam a stream and it will create…

May 27, 2012

When are you?

There’s a profound and miraculous mystery right under our noses: this instant of now has no duration at all, yet…

May 8, 2012

Stepping into timelessness

Sometimes in my meditation practice, time and space have vanished. There are passages in the early Buddhist tradition that encourage…

April 13, 2012

How “letting go” helps us get things done

Joe, a student in my online class, was worried that meditation would hurt his career. He works in a very…

January 30, 2012

“To see what is in front of one’s nose needs a constant struggle.” George Orwell

Metaphors can be traps. We can end up taking them too literally. The point of a metaphor is to help…

January 3, 2012