anicca (impermanence)

Reflections on the death of my mother

It's my birthday today, and it's unlike any I can remember from my now 63 years on this planet. It's…

January 4, 2024

Honoring five Wildmind authors who are no longer with us

Today, February 15, is known as Parinirnava Day in much of the Buddhist world. It commemorates the anniversary of the…

February 15, 2023

Dealing with the pain of change

The other day one of my meditation students wrote, asking for some advice. She was having to downsize and move…

July 2, 2021

Dharma lessons I learned from my cat

I lost my beloved orange cat Rusty last June. There’s something about a relationship with a pet that’s so different…

May 23, 2021

This one small shift can help you be more at peace

Often when we see change we act like it's a big surprise that the universe has been hiding from us.…

February 27, 2019

Seeing experience as a movie

In my last post I said I'd been teaching meditations based on a Buddhist discourse called the Honeyball or Honeycake Sutta.…

November 23, 2018

Jack Kornfield: “The trouble is, you think you have time.”

Jack Kornfield, in Buddha’s Little Instruction Book, says, “The trouble is, you think you have time.” In other words, we…

June 18, 2018

The key to a happier life is learning how to suffer better

One of the Buddha's key teachings — arguably the key teaching — is the four noble truths, which tell us…

January 14, 2018

The great mystery of being

Wildmind's online course, The Great Mystery of Being: A Practical Introduction to the Experience of Non-Self, begins on Wednesday, September…

September 18, 2017

The most important thing you need to know about life, according to Buddhism

Arguably the central teaching of Buddhism, without which the others make no sense, is that things change. While "things change"…

June 4, 2017