loving-kindness meditation

What does your heart say?

The Practice Choose to love. Why? Many years ago, I was in a significant relationship in which the other person…

January 16, 2014

What do you call metta?

What's your preferred translation of "metta"? As a kind of postscript to our recent Urban Retreat, which was on the…

November 27, 2013

Body image booster: loving-kindness meditation

Margarita Tartakovsky, PsychCentral: In her book The Need to Please: Mindfulness Skills to Gain Freedom from People Pleasing & Approval…

October 28, 2013

When metta doesn’t mean “love”

I remember feeling very frustrated - and frankly a little baffled - when I was first learning the metta bhavana…

September 22, 2011

Auntie Suvanna: Seeking love in the wrong place

What do you do when your heart says "yes" to someone who's determined to break it? Auntie Suvanna's wisdom and…

July 17, 2010

Ursula K. Le Guin: “Love doesn’t just sit there, like a stone, it has to be made, like bread; re-made all the time, made new.”

Everything's impermanent, but rather than be depressed by this fact we can use it to our advantage. Bodhipaksa looks at…

December 10, 2008

Goals in the spiritual life

Are spiritual goals dangerous triggers for grasping and selfish desire? Do we need to let go of goals in order…

November 25, 2008

Seven Buddhist strategies for coping with stress

We all know that mindfulness and meditation are increasingly taught as ways of coping with stressful situations. But what about…

June 4, 2008

Emo Philips: “I used to think that the brain was the most wonderful organ in my body. Then I realized who was telling me this.”

Given that it's the mind that makes up the stories with which we try to make sense of the world,…

May 19, 2008

A student asks: In my metta bhavana practice, I can’t seem to feel anything toward the neutral and difficult person. Any advice?

A student asks: In my metta bhavana practice, I can’t seem to feel anything toward the neutral and difficult person.…

September 25, 2007