lovingkindness practice

Connection before kindness

I’ve had a lot of opportunity to teach metta, or “lovingkindness,” over the last two years. One thing I’m doing…

September 17, 2015

After meditation, self-critical people ease up

Ann Lukits, Wall Street Journal: Self-critical people were significantly kinder and more compassionate toward themselves after practicing lovingkindness meditation compared…

August 5, 2015

You need more than a book to learn loving-kindness

Kira M. Newman, GGSC: A new study suggests that experience trumps intellectual knowledge when it comes to fostering compassion. If…

April 8, 2015

How to love: Legendary Zen Buddhist teacher Thich Nhat Hanh on mastering the art of “interbeing”

Maria Popova, Brain Pickings: “To love without knowing how to love wounds the person we love.” What does love mean,…

April 1, 2015

On having lovingkindness for hackers

Two days ago I got an email message from a friend, saying that Wildmind had been hacked. Uh, oh. It…

March 19, 2015

Be kind to everyone, but trust only those who deserve it

Recently someone asked me what she should do if she couldn't trust a person she was being kind to. In…

March 16, 2015

Step five: Transforming our speech, actions and livelihood

Anyone who has worked a set of steps either in the 12 step tradition or the 8 step model, will…

March 2, 2015

No more (Buddhist) Mr. Nice Guy!

Recently Euan, whom I don't know, wrote a comment expressing his dismay at a girl turning him down because he…

February 5, 2015

Mind over matter

Linda and Charlie Bloom, Psych Central: “Mindfulness is not something that is only done in the meditation hall, it is…

November 26, 2014

The power of kindness (and one surefire way to know if you “get” mindfulness)

Ed Halliwell, Mindful: In my last blog, I wrote that I had been experimenting with a slightly adapted working definition…

November 19, 2014