thinking in meditation

Mindful tools for overcoming social media addiction (The Social Media Sutra, Introduction)

Introduction In late 2019 I recorded a series of talks for "Tricycle" magazine. These discussed how tools from the Buddhist…

November 6, 2019

The seven top frustrations for beginning meditators (and how to overcome them)

Recently I was asked to contribute a couple of paragraphs on top frustrations for beginning meditators (and how to overcome…

December 10, 2018

Don’t believe everything you think

We're rightly concerned about "Fake News" — fabricated stories created in order to sway people's political choices or simply to…

March 27, 2018

If you want to be happier, drop the mind-reading

An essential part of being human (and in fact of being a primate) is what psychologists call "theory of mind,"…

April 27, 2017

Why meditation is for people who “can’t meditate”

Are you one of those people who think, "Oh, I could never meditate. My mind's too busy!"? I'm here to…

December 22, 2016

Enjoying the play of your inner toddler

We can experience different kinds of distracted thinking in meditation. There are obvious, compelling, and “in your face” thoughts in…

December 19, 2016

The most important thing right now, is <em>right now</em>

The problem with distractions is that they're compelling. They make us think that they're important. They draw us into their…

October 18, 2016

Stepping out of compulsive thoughts, and into freedom

The moment when we realize that we've been caught up in a distracted train of thought is a valuable opportunity…

May 19, 2016

How to become happier by appreciating the impermanence of distraction

Beginners to meditation are often disappointed, annoyed, or despondent about many thoughts arise in meditation. They want to get rid…

May 5, 2016

How to improve your attention span through meditation

Your ability to stick with something varies from activity to activity. For example, when playing Scrabble or a computer game,…

April 26, 2016