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Mythbusting the Buddha as a prince

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Many Americans like to “do” a Scottish accent. These attempts all sound the same, but none of them are particularly like an actual Scottish person. The thing is that when an American does a Scottish accent, they are not imitating any Scot they have ever heard — they are imitating another American doing a Scottish accent. Who is in turn imitating another American doing a Scottish accent. And so on…

The American “Scottish” accent has become its own thing, rather detached from the reality of how Scots actually speak.

The stereotypical Buddha story

Something similar happens with books and articles about the Buddha. Over and over you’ll come across accounts like this:

The Buddha was born as Siddhartha Gotama. His father was a king, and wanting him to assume the throne when he was older, he kept the young Siddhartha from contact with the world, surrounding him in luxury in three palaces that he was not allowed to leave.

But Siddhartha was very curious, and persuaded his charioteer to take him out into the surrounding town. There, Siddhartha saw, for the first time, an old man. He was shocked by this, but his charioteer told him that this was the fate of everyone. On two subsequent trips, Siddhartha was again shocked by seeing a sick man and a corpse. Again, his charioteer informed him that this was the fate of us all — Siddhartha included.

On a fourth trip, Siddhartha saw a holy man walking through the town, serene and calm, and he knew that spiritual practice was his only hope for finding meaning and mental peace in this impermanent world. So in the dead of night he sneaked out of the palace and “went forth” into the holy life.

This is something I put together myself, rather than being a quote from any book or article, but I’m sure you’ve seen something like it many times.

The thing is, almost none of it is true — or at least, if you look at the scriptures you’ll either fail to find evidence for it or will find evidence that directly contradicts it.

Many books and articles on the Buddha and his teachings are a bit like the American “Scottish” accent I described: they are imitations of other books and articles, which are themselves imitations of other books and articles, probably going back to the late 19th century, when people in the west started to take Buddhism seriously, having realized that the Buddha was a historical figure, like Plato or Socrates, and not a mythic one, like Zeus or Odin. Like the American “Scottish” accent these accounts have developed a life of their own, and bear only a passing resemblance to the real thing — and in the case of the Buddha, the closest we have to a “real thing” is the early scriptures.

Usually we learn these stereotypical accounts long before we encounter those scriptures. And having already been told that the Buddha’s father was a king, we read accounts of Suddhodana and imagine him in a palace, surrounded by advisers and courtiers. As we read the scriptures, we see things that aren’t in them. Our original understanding of who the Buddha was remains untouched.

The Buddha was not a prince, because his dad wasn’t a king

Today I want to clarify that Suddhodana wasn’t a king, and Sakya, the territory he lived in, wasn’t a kingdom. I’ll deal with some of the other misconceptions in later articles.

Sakya, like some of its neighbors, was a republic, governed by a council of elders. It didn’t have a king. Therefore, the Buddha wasn’t a prince.

There were both monarchies and republics in north-east India at the Buddha’s time. In the map below, Kosala was a kingdom, ruled by Pasenadi and later by his patricidal son, Vidudabha. The Sakyans and their neighbors, the Koliyans and Mallas were republics.

The republics were not democracies, where everyone had a say, but oligarchies (government by the few), where the heads of the most powerful families were in charge of government. There was a council of elders that made decisions, sometimes witnessed by a wider assembly that represented other families and perhaps trade groups who wanted to ensure that their interests were represented.

The leader of the council was not a king. They had the title “raja,” but not “maharaja,” which was what kings like Pasenadi and Vidudabha were called. Raja, in this context, meant something more like “chief,” because the countries that had a republican form of government were not socially or technologically well-developed.

Sakya wasn’t all that

A priest from Kosala gave a very unflattering outsider’s portrait of the Buddha’s people: “The Sakyans are rude, harsh, touchy, and argumentative.  Primitive they are, and primitive they remain!” He was of course prejudiced.

Sakya was not a rich territory. It was rural and relatively poor. Its council would have met in a wood-and-mud hut that didn’t at all resemble a royal palace. In fact, excavations in Tilaurakot (the likely site of Kapilavastu, Sakya’s ancient capital) have revealed no palaces or impressive buildings at all from the time of the Buddha. The richest people there — like the Buddha and his folk — lived in wooden longhouses in which the animals were kept on the ground floor with the family living above. The most impressive buildings were made of mud bricks. The city was defended with a wooden palisade.

This was very different from how the leaders in the nearby monarchies lived. In the kingdom of Kosala, the king lived in an actual palace and had a standing army, which is something Sakya lacked. Standing armies were how kings (and the lands they governed) became rich. They could conquer neighboring lands, seize their wealth, and demand taxes.

One important scripture describes how the Buddha, as a boy, sat under a tree while his father plowed a field. It’s likely that, as a landowner, this is something that Suddhodana actually did. Some people explain this scene as being ceremonial, like the tree-planting or foundation-stone laying of a modern monarch. But what the Buddha-to-be did under the tree was to slip into a natural state of meditation, which isn’t very compatible with a regal event, which would be likely to include an audience, speeches, religious ceremonies, and men blowing on conch shells. It makes perfect sense, though, if we imagine a quiet rural scene with the head of the household doing his daily work.

How did people come to see the Buddha as a prince?

If the Buddha wasn’t a prince, how did people come to think of him that way?

Accounts of the of the Buddha as a prince arose just a few hundred years after his death.

While the Buddha was still alive, the republics were vassal states of the much more powerful monarchies. Shortly after his death, Sakya was brutally invaded by the Kosalan king, Vidudabha. Eventually monarchism became the only form of government people knew. After a few hundred years of monastic rule, people would largely have forgotten that there had ever been an alternative. So when people thought about past nations, they thought about them as having kings.

The reality is that Buddha left the wood-and-mud home where he lived above the livestock and became a religious wanderer. This is significant, but it’s not as dramatic as if he’s seen as a prince renouncing the throne. That’s a much larger sacrifice to make, and proves him to be a man capable of great things.

Clinging to beliefs

If you’ve believed the myth of the Buddha being a prince because you’ve been told it over and over, there’s nothing wrong with that. It’s natural to believe what seemingly reliable sources tell us. Especially if lots of people are saying the same thing.

Maybe you still don’t believe me, but if you investigate the history of Sakya and the other north Indian republics you’ll realize that the Buddha wasn’t and couldn’t have been a prince.

Maybe you’ll be grateful to have a more accurate perspective on history.

But some people get angry when it’s pointed out that they’ve believed a myth. Sometimes that’s because, despite what they may say to the contrary, they have a “religious” view of Buddhism, meaning that, despite anything they say to the contrary, they treat Buddhism as a series of propositions to be believed. The person who points out their mistake is treated just as any blasphemer in any religion is treated. They are insulted, told to shut up, and told they know nothing.

Or sometimes we just don’t like to admit we’ve been wrong. That’s an ego thing, and it’s what we’re trying to get away from. Not clinging to beliefs was an important strand of the Buddha’s early teachings. Of course he stressed this precisely because we do tend to cling to what we believe. But it’s ironic when people emphasize that they’re the most faithful at practicing the Dharma (i.e. the Buddha’s teachings) by refusing to let go of a belief that’s demonstrably false. And when they accuse people of being “bad Buddhists” for following the Buddha’s teaching.

Why does it matter?

Truthfulness is fundamental to being an ethical person. If we are not prepared to face the truth, then we won’t live ethically, because it’s more “efficient” to do bad things and then just lie about them to ourselves and others. it’s efficient because it means we don’t have to expend as much effort.

The ethical thing to do when we realize we’ve inadvertently been passing on misinformation is to correct ourselves. When people refuse to do that it’s usually to do with believing, erroneously, that correcting yourself is a sign of weakness, which in turn is because of ego-clinging, which is what we’re trying to get away from. So having realized something is untruthful, the ethical thing is just to let go of it.

The opposite of defensiveness is humility, which is a powerful spiritual virtue. Humility allows us to recognize when we’ve been wrong, and to admit it. Humility is the practice of radical self-honesty.

Also, I believe that recognizing the truth of who the Buddha was brings us closer to him. Building up the Buddha’s going forth into a heroic act of renouncing the equivalent of multi-millionaire status might be intended to inspire us — “If he can give up all that, you can give up much less.” But it also makes the Buddha seem fundamentally different from us. His biography becomes a fairy-tale. He becomes, on some level, not real.

A mythic Buddha is one we can worship from afar, across a great gulf. To me, at least, a real, flesh-and-bones human being is one I can empathize with, understand, and feel close to.

The Buddha was very real. He watched his father plow fields. He sat in wood-and-mud-walled meeting halls listening to old men drone on about sacrificial ceremonies, and water rights, and disputes about cattle trespassing on fields. And he decided (why is something I’ll discuss later, and it had nothing to do with seeing four sights) that this wasn’t for him, and that he would seek the truth. And having found the truth, he taught this:

Herein someone avoids false speech and abstains from it. He speaks the truth, is devoted to truth, reliable, worthy of confidence, not a deceiver of people. Being at a meeting, or amongst people, or in the midst of his relatives, or in a society, or in the king’s court, and called upon and asked as witness to tell what he knows, he answers, if he knows nothing: “I know nothing,” and if he knows, he answers: “I know”; if he has seen nothing, he answers: “I have seen nothing,” and if he has seen, he answers: “I have seen.” Thus he never knowingly speaks a lie, either for the sake of his own advantage, or for the sake of another person’s advantage, or for the sake of any advantage whatsoever.

Those are words to live by, and to be remembered when we talk about the Buddha’s status in the republic of Sakya.

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Bodhipaksa has been meditating since 1982 and teaching since around 1989. He is a Buddhist practitioner and teacher, a member of the Triratna Buddhist Order, and a published author. He launched the Wildmind website on November 11, 2000. Bodhipaksa has published many guided meditations and books. He teaches in various meditation centers around the world. He is supported by donations from members of the Wildmind community. If you're interested in becoming a supporter and in getting access to more of Bodhipaksa's teachings, please click here to learn more about his meditation initiative.

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  • Thank you for this article. I’m one of the people who believed the tale of the Buddha. It’s crazy to me how people will hold onto their beliefs under any circumstance. It is dividing the world. I always think of what I rather be right or happy, vulnerability and admitting our mistakes are our strength. I was curating some Buddhist quotes, and I came across articles that would debunk that the coats actually came from the Buddha. Anything that happened so long ago, for that matter what happened 50 years ago, can often be a case of telephone, especially when everything wasn’t just transcribed in the moment. There’s is a good lesson for us in the article whether or not your right, which by the way, makes sense.

    • Yes, I believe that things can very much distorted through history just as the Bible has, in my opinion. This article is interesting as I've never heard of this story of Buddha's beginnings. Food for thought, for sure!

  • Well, now, this makes more sense to me. I always thought that the princely thing was a bit magical although I connected with the idea of the four sites. I use it to reflect upon my own path towards Buddhism. Specifically, how to fold the sites into my own understanding of what makes up life and how I choose to respond. Thank you for this clarification.

  • What most people dont understand about the story is its a story. Its foretelling when Maitreya will be born. The kingdom he was born in is celestial / spiritual like Shambhala. Not a real physical place on earth.
    Also most westerners are unaware of all Buddhas before Siddhartha Gautama. Siddhartha was the 28th Buddha and the last of the seven Buddhas of Antiquity. Finishing up the last stage before the rainbow body. They miss the concept of Buddha.
    Also very few know that Maitreya is here now. He is the once and future king every myth / religion talks about. We are about to enter the Golden Yuga.

    namô o bodo,
    namô o douarmo,
    namô o saggo

  • Really nice article. I too fell victim to this game of Buddha=prince telephone when I was much younger, and I believe I hadn't really given it that much thought since then. Lots of "oh yeah" moments reading this.

    I look forward to the subsequent entries in this series.

    • I'm planning to write one every month this year. Or at least every month until I run out of myths to bust.

  • Really helpful to read this, as I had always wondered why the Buddha's father was ploughing that field when he sat under the rose apple tree if he was supposedly a king with a palace! There often seems a division between people who are more attracted to spiritual figures that seem very different from them, and those who are attracted to figures that seem very similar to them. I love the suttas where the Buddha complains loudly when he hurts his foot, or when he goes off to the woods because he is sick of the noise of his followers arguing - and even love that he died of food poisoning! He then seems rooted in a life very much like mine, whatever he then did to radically transform his relationship to those conditions.

    • I agree Jo, and I think you've put your finger on something important when you say that some people want to look up to a spiritual figure who's completely different from them. I think that's a kind of spiritual escapism, where people may be attempting to escape who they are. Like you, I prefer to see the Buddha's humanity. One of my favorite things about him is where he curses old age while nursing an aching back. Like you, I empathize with his dislike of noisy monks. It appears he once quit as head of the sangha because of this very issue.

      • I had never seen that old age sutta before. "I spit on you old age!! That's fantastic. Not a side of the Buddha that we often hear about . Thanks

  • So there was no Channa the charioteer and his horse Kanthaka?
    I'm trying to do a poem on Buddha and having read this mud house stuff i feel I'm at cross roads . Help me

  • Thank you for this wonderful article. Please realize that while Siddhartha Gautama is "The Buddha" of our time, the concept of Buddha extends to many enlightened beings, emphasizing that awakening is a universal potential, not limited to one person or era, with traditions detailing past, present, and future Buddhas.

    • I'm glad you enjoyed the article. I'm curious, though, why you explain this to me as if you assume I'm unaware of it. I remember the first time I encountered the idea that Gautama was one Buddha amongst many, when reading Conze's "Buddhist Scriptures" (the Penguin Classic) back in the 1970's.

  • I'm just curious, but are you a Secular Buddhist? Do you believe that the Buddha had any supernatural powers at all in anyway, or that rebirth is literal and that the other realms are actual places you go to when you die? Like Deva realm and etc?

    Do you believe that the Buddha himself believed in any or all of those things literally?

    The reason I ask is because I've been reading from Secular Buddhism that all of the supernatural and spiritual aspects were just metaphors for the ignorant people of his time that Buddha himself either believed in as well or, he didn't believe in those things literally but simply used those allegories to reach an audience that wouldn't understand science and rationalism 2,5000 years ago.

    The Secular Buddhists also claim that the people of today who still cling onto the supernatural and spiritual parts are simply incapable of letting go of their own attachments and Wrong View and refuse to adapt to modern science, and that the Secular Buddhists are the open-minded ones that actually see the TRUE teachings for what they really are.

    They claim that the Buddha was basically what they like to term the Proto-Scientist and Proto-Rationalist and Proto-Psychologist and etc.

    And that his teaching of Karma was basically the Proto-Cause And Effect/Butterfly Effect that scientists would later discover on their own or as being influenced by Buddhism.

    And that the realms are just our mental states which symbolically represents greed, hatred, ignorance, desire, attachment, and suffering and happiness and pleasure and etc.

    And that rebirth is just a new person who will be made out of the particles we leave behind and that Karma is simply the state we leave the world in for others.

    Basically, we don't literally BECOME that other person, we are simply responsible for them.

    But, after we die, that's it, and the person who is born later on is simply someone who has to put up with whatever bullshit we caused for them based on how we lived our own lives here and now.

    They claim literal rebirth is scientifically impossible without a Soul/Atman and so Anatman basically makes rebirth metaphorical and not literal since a Soul/Atman is not a thing that actually exists.

    They compared it to lighting a new candle with an already lit old candle. The new candle is not 100% its own candle and it's not 100% the old candle.

    But the old candle doesn't literally BECOME the next candle, the old candle doesn't have the Qualia and first-person perspective of the new candle.

    The old one isn't actually looking through the new candle's eyes, and feeling it's pain and happiness, and thinking it's thoughts, and experiencing its emotions.

    The old candle is simply dead and gone, and the new candle is a new existence that was created from fragments of things that came before it, including the old candle.

    They said that that is exactly the same process of a person dying and a new person being created from their fragments. They don't BECOME that new person; the new person is simply created using bits and parts from the old person.

    They compare it more to giving birth or making a clone of someone. The mother doesn't experience anything through the baby firsthand, and the original doesn't experience anything through the clone firsthand. Neither do twins have first person experiences of each other.

    You are substrate locked to your brain and cannot separate it. You cannot for example, upload yourself to a Virtual Reality. At best, the upload would be a mere COPY of you, but YOU would not actually experience that copy firsthand.

    They also claim that Buddhism and the Buddha shaped what we now have as science and psychology today and that we owe a lot of our modern science and psychology to the Buddha and Buddhism.

    The reason I ask all of this is because after reading your Fake Buddha Quote articles and reading how Mahayana was not actually taught by the Buddha Himself and reading this article that demystifies the Buddha into an ordinary human being, it makes me start to wonder if the Secular Buddhists were right all along.

    Bonus questions:

    Does something HAVE to be taught by the Buddha directly in order for it to be real and represent something true about reality and existence?

    The reason I ask is because I noticed you said the Mahayana doesn't automatically become invalid just because the Buddha never taught them, but if they were true things, wouldn't the Buddha have taught them directly? Why would he be silent about those things and leave them to be discovered by people centuries later?

    Final Bonus Question: I have been really interested in Pure Land Buddhism, Amitabha Buddha and Jodo Shinshu specifically for its "Easy Path" and "Fine As You Are Approach" to Salvation and Nirvana unlike other religions which either leave you to the whims of an angry, judgmental God or the absolute do everything yourself and correctly of Theravada, AKA, do the hard work of meditation, become a monk, cut off all fetters etc which take multiple lifetimes as opposed to a single lifetime of Pure Land.

    The lay life of Theravada is simply for those not strong enough and ready to take on the REAL path, but the good merits obtained from the lay life will be used towards future lives in order to make becoming a Monk more likely.

    My actual question is: If the Buddha never taught the Mahayana, does that mean he also never taught the Pure Land or about Amitabha either?

    And, if so, is there any possibility that Amitabha can still exist and that Pure Land can still be true? Or does Buddha not teaching it mean it HAS to be a completely fabricated false teaching that can't possibly exist or be real?

    And, if Theravada is indeed correct, then what is the fate of all Pure Landers when they die? Is it DOOM? AKA, spending countless more Kalpas cycling through SamSara until they get another chance to choose Theravada and practice it diligently?

    Sorry for such a LONG post and thank you if you read all of it and answer everything in here!

    • I just wanted to let you know that I have read your post and will reply to your questions — thank you for those — as soon as I can.

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