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Help during the holiday season

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Vimalasara

Struggling over the holiday period? Or are you just struggling period? Recovery doesn’t have to be a struggle. So why do so many of us struggle?

  • Have you reached out for help?
  • Have you reached out for help again when you didn’t get the help you needed?
  • Have you been to a recovery meeting? 12 Steps, SMART Recovery, Refuge Recovery, 8 Step Recovery? There is so much out there to choose from.
  • Are you being honest?
  • Or are you in DENIAL (Don’t Even Notice I am Lying ?)

No need to be on your own and isolate on Xmas day, Come and join me in a Xmas day 8 Step Recovery meeting 12:30pm Eastern Time, 5:30pm UK time.

And if Xmas day isn’t enough, or you are wanting new tools to help you in 2020, join me in the online 28-day Mindfulness-Based Addiction Recovery Course beginning January 20th. This course is hosted by Wildmind and has been accredited by the British Association of Mindfulness BAMBA. Details here

Vimalasara

Dr Valerie Mason-John (hon.doc) M. A is an accredited Recovery Coach, Life Coach and Mindfulness Teacher. She is a senior member of the Triratna Buddhist Order. She is one of the leading African descent voices on mindfulness and addiction and is currently the President of the Buddhist Recovery Network, co-author of Eight-Step-Recovery-Teachings-Addiction- Using the Buddha's Teachings to Overcome Addiction. She is one of the Insight Timer Teachers. She is the author of eight books, including, Detox Your Heart, a book on working with anger, fear and hatred. She is available for talks, seminars, workshops and retreats. eightstepsrecovery@gmail.com

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  • Just the right words I needed to hear!
    Thank you for speaking of the heart!
    Most important ❤️

  • Thank you! I will definitely plan to be on the X-mas meeting at 12:30. I also plan to sign up for the 28 day course.

    • Hi, Laura.

      You might want to note that this post is from five years ago. Vimalasara may be running a gathering on Dec 25, but I don't know if she is.

      All the best,
      Bodhipakṣa

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