lovingkindness practice

Learning to love the flaws

As I wrote in my most recent book, Living as a River: Relating to someone as a “self”—on the basis…

November 17, 2011

Seven ways to ease your anxiety, without pills

Someone recently wrote to me asking about how to deal with anxiety. He didn't say specifically what his anxiety was…

November 12, 2011

Meditation – how many forms should we practice?

There are many different types of meditation practices. Most familiar, perhaps, are mantra meditation, Mindfulness of Breathing, Metta Bhavana (Development…

October 29, 2011

How to have compassion

Compassion is essentially the wish that beings not suffer - from subtle physical and emotional discomfort to agony and anguish…

October 10, 2011

‘Self-compassion’ can help divorced people heal

Robert Preidt: Self-compassion can help the newly divorced get through one of the most difficult periods of their lives, researchers…

October 3, 2011

When metta doesn’t mean “love”

I remember feeling very frustrated - and frankly a little baffled - when I was first learning the metta bhavana…

September 22, 2011

A thousand thoughts of love

Juko, also known as Tina Jay, and manifesting on the microblogging service Twitter as @BuddhistGirl, has been tweeting with relentless…

September 2, 2011

How to clear your mind of negative thoughts

One of my friends is a lawyer in New York. He graduated from law school, passed the bar exam, got…

May 8, 2011

With no effort or practice whatsoever, Enlightenment is here

In all sects of Buddhism, meditation is a prevalent practice,  but Buddhist teachers from different sects use different language to teach meditation.…

March 12, 2011

“The Force of Kindness,” by Sharon Salzberg

Sharon Salzberg has an excellent reputation for creating wonderful dharma books, but when I first saw the title, The Force…

November 30, 2010