Are you a movie buff? Do you enjoy going to a theater, watching a movie and getting caught up in the plot and relating with the characters and leaving your own plot behind?
When you watch a movie about climbing mountains, and you are afraid of heights, does the fear of the situation cause your heart to race and your palms to sweat?
These are examples of how energy and feelings are contagious.
And have you noticed that when you are with someone who is negative, you feel negative too?
This frequently happens when someone is talking in a negative way, or complaining, about someone or a situation.
Listening to negativity and complaints is not an uplifting, positive experience.
But listening to someone speak about what is positive about a situation or a person can lift our hearts and our moods and then we feel positive as well.
Have you ever been in a lackluster, dull mood and then spent some time with a friend who was happy and in a positive frame of mind? Did you find that your friend’s positivity was contagious? I have witnessed that situation and experienced it as well.
In meetings with friends, at work or with family members, we can have an effect on the emotional tone of the gathering. Our positive outlook can transform a negative atmosphere.
The next time you are with one person or a group of people, and the discussion becomes negative with gossip or ill will, try turning it around by speaking about the positive qualities of the person other people are gossiping about.
At work, if colleagues are speaking negatively about a change in procedure, you might empathize with their feelings about the change and then, if you see positive outcomes of the change, mention them.
We can sometimes fall into feeling negatively without even realizing what is happening. With mindfulness and an understanding of the interactions between a couple of people or a group of people, we can turn negative energy into positive energy.
Do you have a friend or family member who is negative most of the time? Try turning the interaction around by being positive and see whether being positive is contagious.
How we think about and respond to situations is our choice. We have a choice to be negative or to be positive. Negativity breeds more negativity. Positivity breeds more positivity.
Each person’s positivity has an effect on the people they are with – positivity is contagious.